A reply from Carlos - he appears to have moved again!

Well according to Carlos, he was brought up in London but now that has changed to Chesterfield. He initially said he lived in Maidenhead, then London  but now he lives thousands of miles away. Make yer mind up Carlos!! Still, he has already developed feelings for me so maybe I shouldn't be too judgemental.

Hello Tess,

Nice to receive your email,never will i think that you are so forward i like someone who always express his/her thought,you are not the only one who say i am good looking,i like dressing on cowboy hat,that is my best way of dressing. I grew up in Chesterfield near Nottingham where i spend most of my life. Yes my life is so full of grief but i have to keep my past behind and move on with my life,i am tired of loneliness that is why i am looking for a soul mate,a companion whom i will spend the rest of my life with,every man need someone to love and beloved that is why i am ever ready to make the sacrifice to find that woman,i hope it will be you,despite that we have not met i am having strong feelings for you,i know that you posses most of the attributes that every man will ever look for in a woman. I think you will find me a real man who will keep you satisfied and love you unconditionally.

 I am looking for a serious relationship and a soul mate which may lead to a future secure relationship.I have been a widow for the past 3 years,i have  6 years old  daughter living with me.I am a person who likes to give love, attention, kindness. I like reading, listening music, daydreaming i love traveling discovering new places, new people, new traditions .I am looking for a woman that is caring fun to be around,she must be Adaptable, Adventurous, Attractive, Caring, Communicative and Generous.Well Babe just to give you a little bit insight about me I was brought up in a family that teaches me to respect people and be loyal to their feelings.

I must say i am glad about my parents because of their upbringing and here I am. The question is, will you be able to fall for a soul mate of yours who is thousands of miles away from you and if yes then I am ready for you despite the distance. I promise you that whatever it takes I would not do anything to hurt you because I wasn't brought up in such a way.I am a homely person and I love cleanliness, I love to cook for my woman and entertain her in what so ever ways. As I have said earlier I have a very open and sweet personality. You got to know me to see these qualities,my pics attached,you can see my daughter beside me.Looking forward to your mail.
Take care & have a wonderful night,
Carlos.

My reply to Carlos - are you good with beans?

Do you think he will realise that I am  flirting with him?


Good afternoon Carlos

Thank you so much for your email and photo. I hope you don't think I am being to forward if I say that you are an exceptionally good looking man Carlos!  That cowboy hat makes you look so strong,  masculine and virile. I don't suppose you have the leather chaps and stirrups to go with it do you? It's been a long time fantsay of mine to be taken by a man dressed as a cowboy and be ridden like the crazy wild woman that I am! Oh Carlos, you've brought a smile to my face and a damp patch to my knickers!! If you do have any other photos of yourself, particularily dressed in cowboy gear I would love to see them!

I see you grew up in London - whereabouts? I am further north in a small villiage called Slutsbury-in-Gussett. I have lived here most of my life. It's a nice enough place but can get a bit boring at times.

I was sorry to read about your parents dying and then your dear wife. You must be so  full of grief my dear. At least you still have your daughter. She must be such a blessing to you. But you must get lonely and long for the sweet touch of a good (or bad) woman. We all need human interaction and affection, non more so than me. I long for a strong, passionate man to take me in his arms and  ........  oooh maybe I am gettting a little bit carried away here Carlos. I can't help it, it's your gorgeous picture that's doing it to me!!

Anyway, a bit more about me. I too am widowed but will tell you more about that another time as it's all quite painfull. I have my own business and I shall tell you more about that at some point too. You can't be too careful can you?

What I am seeking is a man, a real man, one who can keep me satisfied and love me for the person I am. I may not be perfect but I am a nice person and need a man to love. Could that be your Carlos?

I hope to hear from you soon.

Lots of love from Tess xxxxxxxxx

PS Being half Mexican, does that mean you are good with 'beans'?